Deep feelings hit you like lightning bolts, especially when someone tries to control you or tell you what to do. Your Pluto square Lilith creates this fascinating pattern where you absolutely refuse to be diminished, yet you also have this almost magnetic pull toward intense situations that force you to confront parts of yourself you'd rather keep hidden. People probably notice you have zero tolerance for fake politeness or surface-level interactions, and you can spot manipulation from miles away because you've got your own complex relationship with power.
The beautiful thing about this square is how it gives you an incredible ability to help others break free from whatever's keeping them small, mainly because you've had to do that work yourself so many times. You don't just transform, you completely reinvent yourself when life demands it, and you usually come back stronger and more authentic than before. Sure, this means you sometimes blow up situations that others think are fine, but you're wired to detect when something needs to change even if everyone else wants to pretend everything's perfect.
Transiting Pluto square your natal Lilith is basically putting a spotlight on all the parts of yourself you've been keeping locked away. You know those fierce desires and that raw personal power you've been trying to keep under wraps? They're about to demand some serious attention. This transit has a way of bringing up old wounds and fears that you thought were handled, but think of it as your psyche doing some major spring cleaning.
The square aspect means you can't just ignore what's coming up anymore. You're going to have to face some uncomfortable truths about what you really want and who you really are when nobody's watching. Yes, this might stir up some tension in your relationships or make you question everything about your life choices. But here's what's actually happening: you're being given a chance to reclaim parts of yourself that got buried under other people's expectations. The friction you're feeling isn't punishment, it's your authentic self trying to break free.