Your Venus square Lilith gives you this wild contradiction when it comes to love and attraction. You want the fairy tale romance that Venus craves, but there's this part of you that rebels against anything too neat or traditional. You fall for people who challenge you or shake up your world, then wonder why your relationships feel like emotional roller coasters. The safe, sweet connections bore you to tears, but the intense ones leave you questioning everything about what you thought you wanted.
This aspect means you don't do love like everyone else, and that's your secret weapon once you stop fighting it. You have this rare ability to create relationships that are both deeply romantic and completely authentic to who you are. Sure, it takes longer to find your people because you can't fake compatibility with someone who wants you to dim your edges. But when you embrace both sides of this square, you attract connections that honor your need for beauty and your refusal to be anyone's well-behaved partner.
The transiting Venus square to Lilith is stirring up some real tension between keeping everyone happy and honoring what you actually want. Venus wants to smooth things over and maintain that pleasant harmony you're used to, but Lilith is pushing you to stop hiding parts of yourself that don't fit the "nice person" mold. You might find yourself in situations where being agreeable feels suffocating, or where your usual charm isn't covering up deeper frustrations anymore.
This transit is also poking at how you value yourself, especially when it comes to love and relationships. Those nagging doubts about whether you're attractive enough or worthy enough are probably getting louder right now. But here's what's actually happening: you're being pushed to define your own worth instead of letting other people's opinions decide for you. The discomfort you're feeling is your authentic self trying to break through all those layers of people-pleasing and social expectations.